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		<title>stuff I should have mentioned</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 12:14:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nafisa</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Got this tag from Hamish. It’s a list of stuff that I should have mentioned to my husband before I got married. You know, the quirks, or whatever you want to call it. 1. I don’t like eating broken Marie biscuits. 2. When I’m upset and say “I’m okay” – I’m not really okay. 3. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Arial;"><span>Got this tag from </span><a href="http://hamishpillay.wordpress.com/2010/02/16/things-the-future-mrs-p-should-know-about-me/" target="_blank">Hamish</a><span>. It’s a list of stuff that I should have mentioned to my husband before I got married. You know, the quirks, or whatever you want to call it.</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Arial;"><span><a href="http://www.nafisa.co.za/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/image1.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-2000" title="image1" src="http://www.nafisa.co.za/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/image1.jpg" alt="" width="230" height="260" /></a>1. I don’t like eating broken Marie biscuits.<br />
2. When I’m upset and say “I’m okay” – I’m not really okay.<br />
3. If I do admit to not being okay, I don’t like talking about it.<br />
4. I can be OCD at times (you should see me butter my toast).<br />
5. I hate doing dishes and laundry.<br />
6. I flip channels and try to follow 2 programs at once.<br />
7. I get distracted easily.<br />
8. I forget to put the milk back into the fridge.<br />
9. I forget to switch off appliances sometimes (I know what you’re thinking).<br />
10. I can get *very* competitive at games and hate losing.<br />
11. When I cook, I don’t like being distracted or want help.<br />
12. When I don’t have food in my stomach, I’m the biggest grouch (you can only imagine what I’m like in Ramadaan).</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Arial;"><span>That&#8217;s all I can think of right now.</span></span></p>
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		<title>Online relationships</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Feb 2009 19:43:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nafisa</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I find that people are more forthcoming in an online environment than in real life. I attended last month&#8217;s 27dinner and Johannesburg&#8217;s Twestival (yesterday, 12 Feb) and I found that (at both events) people weren&#8217;t quick to introduce themselves (well except for Lionel du Plessis, Reuben Goldberg, Richard Mulholland and Don Packett last night). An [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Georgia;">I find that people are more forthcoming in an online environment than in real life. I attended last month&#8217;s <a href="http://www.27dinner.com" target="_blank">27dinner</a> and Johannesburg&#8217;s <a href="http://johannesburg.twestival.com/" target="_blank">Twestival</a> (yesterday, 12 Feb) and I found that (at both events) people weren&#8217;t quick to introduce themselves (well except for <a href="http://tjpytheas.vox.com" target="_blank">Lionel du Plessis</a>, <a href="http://twitter.com/RubyGold" target="_blank">Reuben Goldberg</a>, <a href="http://www.richardmulholland.co.za" target="_blank">Richard Mulholland</a> and <a href="http://donpackett.com" target="_blank">Don Packett</a> last night).</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Georgia;">An event like the Twestival attracts the geekier crowd (<a href="http://www.twitter.com" target="_blank">Twitter</a> has not gone mainstream), and I think it’s safe to assume that a lot of geeks are shy. I&#8217;m all for networking online and admit I&#8217;m one of those who wont just go up to someone and say, &#8220;Hi, I&#8217;m Nafisa and you must be&#8230;.&#8221;. Sounds a bit stalkerish. If you&#8217;ve built a &#8216;relationship&#8217; with someone online for a while, then introducing yourself comes naturally.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Georgia;">While chatting to the <a href="http://twitter.com/SingleSyllable" target="_blank">SingleSyllable</a> last night, we agreed that people on Twitter know what they want and know why they&#8217;re there. Twitter is a very powerful tool, if used properly. It’s also natural to network with like-minded individuals. However, I think it makes a difference if you not only follow a person on Twitter, but their personal blog too and after that, the idea of meeting irl is just the next step. Relationships like these tend to have a more solid foundation.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Georgia;">During my time as content &amp; community manager at <a href="http://www.mydl.co.za" target="_blank">My Digital Life</a>, I built a lot of relationships online with numerous bloggers and when we had a MOB (meeting of the bloggers), introducing ourselves came naturally; there were no uncomfortable or awkward moments. Conversation flowed.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Georgia;">Social networking has indeed changed the way people communicate. There’s no beating around the bush.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Georgia;">Just the way I like it.</span></p>
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